My sister and her husband have been separated for exactly 3 months and most of that time my sister has lived with me.
My sister was complaining to my mom and dad for a while and they let her stay there, but she was having trouble getting the kids to school.
Eventually she decided to ask if she could live with me. I told my sister that I would happily let her and the kids stay in my house, but I wanted to remind my sister that I use recreational marijuana and I was not going to stop just because she moved into the house. My sister was well aware of how I felt when she moved in, but she still complains after 3 months. I stopped smoking in the house and I only smoke in the garage. I think that was a big sacrifice in the first place, because it’s my house and I was smoking inside before my sister moved in. Every time I come inside from being in the garage, my sister makes some kind of remark about the fact that the whole house is going to smell like marijuana now. I remind my sister frequently that she is a guest in my home, but I don’t want to be rude. I can’t exactly kick my sister out and put her and the kids on the street. Even if I could, I probably wouldn’t. I still wish that my sister wouldn’t try to make me feel bad when I’m literally providing her with a roof over her head.