My brother as well as his partner have been separated for exactly 3 months as well as most of that time my brother has lived with me… My brother was complaining to my mom as well as Mom for a while as well as they let his stay there, however he was having trouble getting the kids to college, and eventually he decided to ask if he could live with me! I told my brother that I would happily let his as well as the kids stay in my house, but I wanted to remind my brother that I use recreational marijuana as well as I was not going to stop just because he moved into the house.
My brother was well aware of how I felt when he moved in, however he still complains after 3 months.
I stopped smoking in the house as well as I only smoke in the garage. I feel that was a crucial sacrifice in the first place, because it’s my house as well as I was smoking inside before my brother moved in. Every time I come inside from being in the garage, my brother makes some kind of remark about the fact that the whole house is going to smell like marijuana now. I remind my brother frequently that he is a guest in my home, but I don’t want to be rude. I cannot exactly kick my brother out as well as put his as well as the kids on the street. Even if I could, I absolutely wouldn’t. I still wish that my brother would not try to make me feel bad when I’m literally providing his with a roof over his head.