My sibling & her hubby have been separated for exactly 3 months & most of that time my sibling has lived with me, but my sibling was complaining to my mom & dad for a while & they let her stay there, despite the fact that she was having trouble getting the kids to university, eventually she decided to ask if she could live with me, and i told my sibling that I would happily let her & the kids stay in my house, although I wanted to remind my sibling that I use recreational marijuana & I was not going to stop just because she moved into the house. My sibling was well aware of how I felt when she moved in, despite the fact that she still complains after 3 months. I stopped smoking in the home & I only smoke in the garage. I know that was a big sacrifice in the first location, because it’s my home & I was smoking inside before my sibling moved in. Every time I come inside from being in the garage, my sibling makes some kind of remark about the fact that the whole home is going to smell like marijuana now. I remind my sibling frequently that she is a guest in my home, although I don’t want to be rude. I can’t exactly kick my sibling out & put her & the kids on the street. Even if I could, I absolutely wouldn’t. I still wish that my sibling wouldn’t try to make me feel awful when I’m literally providing her with a roof over her head.